Friday, April 27, 2012

The internet is for porn...

I have come to the realization that internet porn does not really get me off in the same way that it used to. I used to be into some pretty hardcore stuff, but have since changed my attitude towards a lot of it.

I find myself somewhat turned off by the extreme images, and find myself more drawn to the real porn. The not so perfect couples that feature women whose boobs actually bounce when having sex. Mainstream porn has become so ridiculously fake.

My go to site is a cam site. I find that I like to interact with the girls, although I rarely even type anything into the chat window. Because of this realization I spend my time searching some of the adult personal sites to find people to chat with. I still have yet to find anyone that I reach out to, mostly because I feel awkward just starting the conversation with these folks.

I do have one friend that I chat with occasionally but her and I do not have sexual chats anymore. We are great friends and I love talking with her but we talk about everything but sex.

I see many people on blogs talking about camming with fellow users or chatting with other people and I am always wondering how they started.

There were a few people that I started to chat with when I first started but we have not talked in quite a while and while we talked about sex a lot of the conversations were more humor than actually for arousal.

So how do you do it... the ones that find people to chat with? I am not one to go to chat rooms to find women, I wonder if most of them are not men. I tried fetlife but also wonder about that site seeing that it seems a lot of the men on their are jackasses and only looking for sex. Maybe that is a broad generalization but when most of the women talk about not accepting any friend request from random guys unless they know them or have met them before it makes me wonder about the people on the site.

I know you can do a lot with Ashley Madison but I still have yet to buy any credits for the site. Maybe I need to do that, but I am not looking for an physical affair... so I dont want to spend the money. So where do others turn to? Are there other sites that I do not know about?


1 comment:

  1. I hear ya. I've had luck in 3 directions - hooking up with old flames, talking to other bloggers, and a wonderful IRC chat room for folks with problems with their spouses - very sexy and supportive. Email if you want more info on any of that. Good luck!

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