So my wife went out and purchased some new bras the other day. She was telling me about the conversation that she had with the salesperson and they let her know of some deals on some lingerie. She said that they were trying to push a matching set and she was telling them that her husband would definitely like that.
Now you have to understand my wife. She has pretty much worn the same style of underwear for several years. She bought a teddy once about 10 years ago that she would use to indicate when she wanted to have sex.
With her depression and other mental health issues she would find it hard to communicate her feelings with me so that was a way for her to open up. Since those days I do not know if it even exists anymore. I have not seen her wear it in about 8 years, maybe longer.
So much to my surprise when I was picking up the laundry from off of the floor of our bedroom and putting it into the basket I noticed a black thong. It was not lace or anything, just a standard black thong. I know she did buy some yoga pants and maybe that is what she was thinking when she bought those, but we talked about thongs years and years ago and she said she hated how they felt.
Which leads me to believe maybe she did buy them to get my interest. I do not know. I am not even sure if I should ask her about them. I was thinking that I would playfully show them to her and see what her reaction is and then go from there.
I know the biggest issue she has has been her weight gain. And while I tell her all the time that she looks great she has said that she does not feel good when we have sex because she feels bad that her fat moves around while we do it... as she said jiggly jiggly jiggly.
I also know that I have approached her about sex recently and she keeps putting it off and telling me she definitely is not ready to start trying again.
Maybe, this is a first step for her to start feeling sexy again, or maybe it is just a matter of comfort and looks for the yoga pants, I have no idea. I just know that finding them had me hard this morning thinking about what she looked like wearing them.
Hopefully this weekend I can find out.