tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8984135679757619792.post5093164457974712755..comments2023-04-01T19:28:28.995-07:00Comments on Blue Eyed Bader: My DilemmaJackBaderhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11376315782020588939noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8984135679757619792.post-45686909574083777322014-10-24T03:37:45.317-07:002014-10-24T03:37:45.317-07:00Bader you and I have gone over this and over this ...Bader you and I have gone over this and over this and believe me I feel your pain and especially HER pain as I struggle with the same weight issues. It is so difficult to explain how unsexy you feel when you are carrying the extra weight. I know you want to help her and I know you want to motivate her and I also know she is stuck in a rut...as am I. I know for myself if there are delicious healthy alternatives to junk in the house that is helpful. As far as exercise, she has to find something she likes to do that doesn't feel like exercise to her. I like spin class. I'm not great at it but they turn the lights off and the music is good. Do you belong to a gym? If there is a good trainer there that your wife clicks with that will motivate her and once she starts losing weight she will gain confidence and even more motivation. It's hard, I know. Keep at it and as always don't hesitate to contact me if you need a friend. Naughty Kittyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17600100832813784579noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8984135679757619792.post-57895590257128719302014-10-21T17:39:18.401-07:002014-10-21T17:39:18.401-07:00Hmmmm. This can definitely be tricky...potential ...Hmmmm. This can definitely be tricky...potential minefield. Yes, she knows her weight is an issue. Little hints can be annoying--no matter how subtle you think you're being. My suggestion is make it something fun to do together. Take her dancing or offer to take a dance class. Dancing can have that great side benefit too of charging her libido. :). Dancing is great exercise. Buy her an MP3 player and download her favorite songs--that was how I got my start. I lost 80 lbs. Of course some of its crept back on. If you want you can email or IM me: simplicity4500@gmail.<br /><br />Good luck to both of you! And I KNOW you know this but...don't buy her any exercise equipment!! Lol. Simplicityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08202432448722905961noreply@blogger.com